Identify the signs and take steps toward a safer and happier relationship
By:
Breeze Editorial Team
Clinically Reviewed By:
Rychel Johnson
May 25, 2025
Disclaimer: This online quiz is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Only a qualified healthcare professional, such as a doctor or licensed mental health provider, can accurately assess and diagnose medical or psychological conditions. If you have concerns about your mental health, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance from a healthcare professional.
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People always want to find the perfect friend or partner, a soulmate who seems to know everything about them. But this ideal picture of someone may break when they show their true colors, leaving you feeling cheated and wondering, "What if my partner or husband is a narcissist?"
The "Is my partner a narcissist?" test on Breeze Wellbeing.com is designed to help you assess whether your partner exhibits narcissistic traits or behaviors and how they influence your relationship dynamic. Of course, this test will not give you a formal diagnosis of your partner but rather a screening tool to identify red flags that may indicate narcissistic tendencies in your partner and your relationships.
Important: Narcissist test online can give you insights but are not a substitute for a professional evaluation.
Twenty questions comprise this quiz, which serves to evaluate:
After the test, the results will indicate the likelihood that your partner is a narcissist and the potential tendencies they have.
For those who are curious about narcissism and want to know if their partner or husband exhibits any of the signs, this quiz is for you. If you're in a relationship and suspect the other person might have narcissistic tendencies, this test can help assess patterns of behavior (red flags like lack of empathy, manipulation, gaslighting, or control issues).
It's important to note that narcissism exists on a spectrum, and self-loving or highly esteemed people are not the only ones who are narcissists. There are common narcissistic traits that many people have, but only a professional can diagnose NPD.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a deeply rooted psychological condition where a person craves admiration, lacks empathy, and maintains a fragile yet inflated self-image. Their interactions with others are impacted by this disorder, frequently in ways that are manipulative and toxic, no matter if it's a male or female narcissist.
According to the Journal of Clinical Psychiatry, 6.2% of the population is diagnosed with NPD. [2] However, a larger number of them go undiagnosed, so the actual count might be greater.
A person with narcissistic tendencies is highly self-focused. To boost their self-esteem, they hold grudges against their partner and look for approval from other people, even if it hurts their partner.
One of the most common indicators of many types of narcissists is dominating the conversation (hogging). Their inflated sense of self is fragile and can easily be shattered by criticism or disapproval.
Here are some common 12 narcissistic traits:
Although a narcissistic partner may not exhibit all characteristics, the presence of five or more could be a cause for concern. To gain additional insights, complete the test.
A mix of genetics, early environment, and psychological factors shapes Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).
Research suggests that childhood experiences—such as excessive pampering, extreme criticism, or neglect—can contribute to narcissistic traits. [3] When children of narcissistic parents learn that their worth is tied to achievement, appearance, or control, they may develop a deep fear of inadequacy, masking it with grandiosity.
Genetic predisposition and differences in brain structure play a role, especially in empathy and emotional regulation areas. [4] Ultimately, narcissism is often a defense mechanism—built to protect fragile self-esteem from deeper wounds.
Here are quick tips on handling narcissists:
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Luo YLL, Cai H, Song H. A behavioral genetic study of intrapersonal and interpersonal dimensions of narcissism García AV, ed. PLoS ONE. 2014